April holds two festivals that understand the same thing from different angles.   Hanuman Jayanti celebrates the birth of Hanuman, the monkey god whose defining characteristic is unwavering devotion. He does not waver. He does not calculate. When Rama needs something impossible, Hanuman does it anyway.   Qingming is the Chinese tomb-sweeping festival. Families visit graves, clear weeds, leave offerings, and tend the dead. The relationship does not end because someone died. It